WELCOME TO THE GSM CONFERENCE EXPERIENCE
A GLOBAL GATHERING LIKE NO OTHER
JUNE 26 - 30TH, 2025
GSM is not your average conference—it's a vibrant, inclusive celebration for anyone who identifies with gay male culture. We're proud to welcome cis gay men, trans men, queer boys, gender-fluid, and non-binary individuals. Simply put, if you resonate with our community, you're going to love this event.
Imagine workshops and meetings tailored just for you, plus highly-produced events that bring fun, fellowship, and top-notch entertainment. Set against the backdrop of Pride Weekend in New York City, this is an experience you'll never forget. And guess what? Our big Saturday night event will be hosted at a unique, special venue!
JOIN A WORLDWIDE COMMUNITY
"GSM is the best event for gay men in recovery!"
- participant
From Brooklyn to Brazil, hundreds flock to GSM from all corners of the globe. Why? Because we offer more than a traditional conference. GSM is a complete sober vacation!
GETTING REGISTERED
Your ticket grants you access to all four days of our exciting lineup:
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The Dance on the River
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Rooftop Pool Party
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Special Entertainment
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The Pride Parade
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Inspiring Meetings and Groundbreaking Workshops
Gay YPAA is helping host this year! For information on scholarships, click here. Please note, there are no refunds. If you can't make it or change your mind, learn about your options here.
Already registered and need to modify your itinerary? Click the "Register Now" button, then select "ALREADY REGISTERED" and follow the steps.
All agenda items are subject to change.
A PROGRAM BEYOND COMPARE
We’ve curated another fantastic weekend. Our workshops are true workshops—engaging and impactful. From classics like Common Ground and The GSM Sex Workshop to eye-opening discussions with LGBTQ cultural leaders, there's something for everyone. At night, gather for our spectacular speaker meetings. Don’t miss the Big Meeting on Saturday night, followed by special entertainment featuring past headliners like Marianne Williamson, Marc Jacobs, Dr. Alan Downs, Bianca Del Rio, Sandra Bernhard, and Margaret Cho.
THE JOY OF LIVING
Start each morning with health and wellness activities, such as a group run through Central Park or rooftop yoga. Every evening, enjoy something fun and memorable. The Rooftop Social kicks off the weekend and is a perfect icebreaker. Your GSM 2025 registration includes participation in the Pride Celebration on Pride Sunday, where you can join the world’s largest Pride Parade. And the highlight? The Dance on the River—a floating high-energy dance party with fireworks and a world-class DJ. It's a Pride experience not to be missed!
THE HOST HOTEL
Our upscale conference hotel features spacious rooms, numerous amenities, and a fitness center. Although it's located in the heart of midtown Manhattan, it offers a tranquil sanctuary once inside. GSM participants enjoy discounted room rates per night, with further discounts if you share a room. All guests will be charged for one night plus taxes when making their reservation. After you register, you'll receive a confirmation email. The deadline to reserve your room and request a roommate is May 27th.
EXPLORE NEW YORK
GSM isn't just a hotel-bound conference. Each night, we’ll take you on adventures around the best neighborhoods of New York City. Workshops will be held at the hotel during the day, and at night, we’ll explore the city for our big meetings and events.
SNAP, SHARE, AND ENJOY
We encourage you to have fun—take selfies, make memories, and enjoy your sober adventure!
OUR COMMITMENT TO YOU
Our goal is to help you create a stronger foundation in your recovery and connect with others in meaningful ways. GSM 2025 is set to be an unforgettable weekend, filled with relationships and memories that will last a lifetime. Don’t just take our word for it; click here to read participant testimonials.
We can't wait to see you there!
After you register for the conference, you will be sent a confirmation email. The deadline to reserve your room is May 27th. The host hotel is the place to be on Pride Weekend! $299 per night. Get a roommate ($149.50) to share the costs. There is a Resort/Destination Fee for GSM bookings.
Traditional King Room Sleeps up to 2 people. *$289 per night Plus taxes *Based on availability. No deposit required to book your room.
Free weights, strength training, and cardio equipment. 24 hours a day
After you register for the conference, you will be sent a confirmation email. The deadline to reserve your room is May 27th. The host hotel is the place to be on Pride Weekend! $299 per night. Get a roommate ($149.50) to share the costs. There is a Resort/Destination Fee for GSM bookings.
THE AGENDA
Thursday June 27
orientation 101
4pm
First time at GSM? Join our Program team where you'll learn how to make the most of your conference experience. We will share experiences on everything from participating in the workshops to planning your most memorable Pride Sunday. We will also offer an opportunity to connect with a mentor alumni from previous GSM Conferences.
Mario
Houston
Thursday June 27
midnight meeting
12am
A more intimate meeting where you can share with your fellows.
All fellowships are welcome.
12-Step meeting format
Mario
Houston
Friday June 28
lunch break
11:30am
Check out all of the great and fun restaurants in Hell's Kitchen! Make sure to invite fellows traveling on their own. That's how we take care of each other at GSM.
For dining recommendations, visit the Event Info section of the Gay & Sober App or www.gayandsober.org/eats
Robbie
New York City
Friday June 28
communal workshop
3:30pm
Explore authentic queer connection in this immersive workshop. Reflect on your comfort levels in relationships and empower each other to overcome fears. Share challenges and strengths, accessing your Inner Superhero to apply insights throughout the conference.
Jeremy Long
Vancouver
Friday June 28
rooftop pool party
10pm
Have some fun. Get to know your fellows. Dance the night away. Make a splash in the pool.
No judgments! Light food and drink will be served.
DJ LEENA
New York City
Saturday June 29
meditation experience
10am
An open, high-energy meditation experience with Ontological Coach, Davis Thompson.
For all fellowships that focuses on the various spiritual practices and tools in sobriety.
Davis Thompson
New York City
Saturday June 29
diversity
workshop
1:30pm
Explore the issues facing queer people of color in the rooms of recovery. Learn how to create community for marginalized groups.
Kyosha Pierre-Francois
New York City
Saturday June 29
the big meeting
8pm
Speaker meeting for all participants. All fellowships are welcomed.
Sobriety countdown!
AA/AL-Anon Speaker Meeting
Michael
Austin
Sunday June 30
the pride parade
12pm
The NYC Pride March is the largest pride parade in the world. Be proud of who you are, march with your fellows, and dance in the streets!! All are welcome. LGBTQ+ inclusive. Our Pride playlist will provide the party from our double decker bus. *Please be advised that signing up to march does not guarantee that you will march. It all depends on the rules and crowd limits set by NYC Pride and the NYPD. VIPs and donors are given first priority though.
DJ PLAYLIST
New York City
Sunday June 30
the dance
on the river cruise
7:30pm
All are welcome at the best sober dance party in the country! LGBTQ+ inclusive. Food and drink available on board for purchase.
Fireworks spectacular.
Special guest DJ Eric James
Included with your registration. We do sell tickets to to non-conference participants for this night only.
CIRCLE LINE, W. 42ND AND THE HUDSON RIVER.
BIRTH 1 SOUTH
LINE UP STARTS AT 7PM
The boat will return to the dock at 11:30pm.
DJ Eric James
Atlanta
Thursday June 27
dinner break
5pm
Check out all of the great and fun restaurants in Hell's Kitchen! Make sure to invite fellows traveling on their own. That's how we take care of each other at GSM.
For dining recommendations, visit the Event Info section of the Gay & Sober App or www.gayandsober.org/eats
Robbie
New York City
Friday June 28
morning glory run
10am
Meet up in the 2nd floor lobby of
The Westin.
All levels welcome. We will break you into a group for a light joggers and a group for the speedy queens. Goes up Times Square, through Central Park and back to the hotel. (4 miles)
Leo
New York City
Friday June 28
mental health workshop
1:30pm
This workshop will address the challenges encountered by many LGBTQ+ individuals
which impact mental health and recovery. We will discuss ways to practice self-compassion, as well as ways to improve and maintain emotional sobriety. Connection
with others, self-care, and having fun in recovery will be addressed.
Brought to you by:
Caron Treatment Centers
Bethany Franklin
Pennsylvania
FRIDAY June 28
dinner break
5pm
Check out all of the great and fun restaurants in Hell's Kitchen! Make sure to invite fellows traveling on their own. That's how we take care of each other at GSM.
For dining recommendations, visit the Event Info section of the Gay & Sober App or www.gayandsober.org/eats
Robbie
New York City
Friday June 28
midnight meeting
12am
A more intimate meeting where you can share with your fellows.
All fellowships are welcome.
12-Step meeting format
Mario
Houston
Saturday June 29
lunch break
11:30am
Check out all of the great and fun restaurants in Hell's Kitchen! Make sure to invite fellows traveling on their own. That's how we take care of each other at GSM.
Christian
New York City
Saturday June 29
keynote speaker
3:30pm
This year, GSM is honored to welcome acclaimed author of The Velvet Rage, Alan Downs PhD as our Keynote Speaker.
There will be time for audience Q&A.
Books will be available for sale and can be signed.
Alan Downs Ph.D
Palm Springs
Saturday June 29
the raffle
10pm
Win big at our famous luxury raffle! Prizes from Apple, Gucci, Dior, and Ralph Lauren!
Will
San Diego
Sunday June 30
parade
viewing social
12pm
For those who would prefer to relax and watch the parade go by, we have set up a friendly space with coffee drinks and snacks available for purchase. Air-conditioned.
*for registered participants only
Erik
San Diego
Thursday June 27
welcome meeting
8pm
Speaker meeting for all participants. All fellowships are welcomed.
In Memoriam,
“Over the Rainbow”, performed by special artist
AA Speaker Meeting
*This meeting is open to all. GSM participants get seated first.
Micah
Las Vegas
Friday June 28
meditation experience
10am
An open, high-energy meditation experience with Ontological Coach, Davis Thompson.
For all fellowships that focuses on the various spiritual practices and tools in sobriety.
Davis Thompson
New York City
Friday June 28
the dating workshop
1:30pm
What No One Teaches Us About Sexual Attraction.
In this conference favorite, you'll learn life-changing tools for transforming your attraction patterns so you can find and keep healthy love. We've invited author and psychotherapist Ken Page from Deeper Dating® to present on the search for love. As seen on Oprah®.
Ken Page, LCSW
New York City
Friday June 28
the opening meeting
8pm
Speaker meeting for all participants. All fellowships are welcomed.
Roll Call from different states and countries!
CMA Speaker Meeting
David
Los Angeles
Saturday June 29
morning yoga
10am
Meet up in the street level lobby of
The Westin.
All levels welcome.
Michael Becker
New York City
Saturday June 29
the sex workshop
1:30pm
This reimagined workshop will focus on how to manage sex in recovery. Hopefully answering the important questions of how to get back into sex without compromising one's recovery.
There will also be a panel discussion with Q&A from the audience.
Dr. David Fawcett PhD
Fort Lauderdale, FL.
Saturday June 29
dinner break
5pm
Check out all of the great and fun restaurants in Hell's Kitchen! Make sure to invite fellows traveling on their own. That's how we take care of each other at GSM.
For dining recommendations, visit the Event Info section of the Gay & Sober App or www.gayandsober.org/eats
Robbie
New York City
Saturday June 29
midnight meeting
12am
A more intimate meeting where you can share with your fellows.
All fellowships are welcome.
12-Step meeting format
Mario
Houston
Sunday June 30
dinner break
5pm
We recommend grabbing a quick bite near the ship or near the hotel. Many fellows like Gotham Market.
Robbie
New York City